Besides my career as a real estate agent I am also a huge fan of experiential education. Specifically, I am a ropes course facilitator..
So why do I sometimes like to take my tie off and put on a harness? Because personal growth has been a passionate study of mine for many years. I love seeing people push through their fears and conquer them. Sometimes that comes from jumping off a pole and sometimes it comes from writing an offer on a house. Fear is fear and success is success.
What does this have to do with my title?
On the ropes course I try to create an environment where it's safe to challenge things that terrify you. Hmmm, kind of like selling houses isn't it? But more important, I work with groups to provide situations where the encouragement from the team can influence people to do things they would never dream of doing alone.
Likewise I see that kind of encouraging atmosphere in my fellow Realtors on Activerain. In fact I was inspired to write this post by a post from my Activerain friend Loreena Yeo. As much as we may try to control our destiny there are things that happen that are out of that realm of control. What defines us is how we interpret and react to those little surprises.
What determines our interpretation and reaction is our conditioning. So do we choose our conditioning or are we conditioned by circumstance? If we carefully guard and craft what we put in our minds, and if we carefully guard who we allow to influence us, then we will be in control of our destiny. Allowing life to happen to us just doesn't produce the desired results.
Think of it this way, if you dump random airplane parts into a huge pile they won't assemble themselves into a 747. If you dump random information into your head you won't come up with a successful life either. Like the 747, a successful life is carefully engineered.
Are you building your life according to a plan or just dumping random information in? I'm going to suggest you take inventory of what you are currently doing in your life. What do you read, watch, listen to? Who do you spend time with? Do you have a mentor or mentors? Most importantly, when was the last time you did something that really scared you?
